Glad To Be Here

Well.. nothing much actually since hubby is not around, he left the day before to Shen Zhen, China. No flowers, no chocolate, no candy, but I’ve got a not so valentine card from Mer. He made it in school, of course with instructions from the teacher and he only did the glittering parts. He doesn’t understand what is V Day, not yet.. I didn’t explain either.
One thing out of my expectation is, he said: “等下我們去結婚” = ‘later we go get married”. hahaha.. from a 2-and-a-half-year-old boy. But Mer, I can’t marry you, ‘cos I’m married to baba.. without giving up, he continues to asked me why .. how sweet..
My day continue on with the normal routine.. getting home for dinner which already prepared by my mom, then get the boys a bath each, then bed time story which the boys love and won’t miss it every night. After they are sleeping, that’s when my creative day begins, I enter into my scrapbooking world. Did a page about Mer but still haven’t put in the journaling. Gonna post it up later in “The Daily“.
That’s about it, my valentine’s day with kisses from my two sons, which is enough to make my day.
Happy belated Valentine’s Day and hope we all treat our everyday as our Valentine’s Day.

I always wonder if my boys are behaving normally in terms of playtime and characters. They seem to always in fighting mode. One is always teasing the other and the other always scream so loud that it hurts my ears. Well.. normally Cal is the one who loves to teas or get on Mer’s nerve. Pushing him, grab his toys away, bump his tricycle, telling him things that he can’t take, chasing him with the bicycle etc.

I found that Mer’s cousin also doing that to him, he loves it especially when he had snatch toys from Mer’s bag or hand or when Mer has walked away to get something else. hmm… I wonder why..

As for Mer, he got panic very fast and straight away scream once he found out that his toys have been taken away, his responded by shouting and sometimes hitting his elder brother and also his cousin. This of course doesn’t happen if he is playing by himself, he can just play for a long time without making many noises. He just occupied himself with all his toy cars and arranges them in order.

I wish two of you (Cal and Mer) would play together more, would share more and would trust each other more. I hope you compete less with each other, ‘cos you always wanna get my attention at the same time, competing on who gets the milk bottle first, who finished it first, who got more toys.. etc. I hope you two would become best of friends who shares your joy and sorrow together, I hope you love each other more everyday and standby each other side.

This is my hope to you…

This is last year photo of the boys on board to the plan to Hong Kong and then to ShenZhen, where we had spent our Christmas and New Year.
My boys.. When they are on board, they enjoyed it, the pressure doesn’t put them into bad mood, the journey doesn’t fret them. For the outbound journey, they had been goody-goody all through. Well.. As usual, they still fight, fortunately not until I can’t control the situation. Mer slept half of the journey while me and cal had our food. Thank God that there are empty seats behind us, so there is where I’ve settle Mer in for his nap. However once Cal finished his food, he made some loud noise that woke Mer up.. still.. I did manage to have my food

Here.. the two sweetie pie snuggling up on board. I wish my every journey on board are like this one, with two jolly happy sweetie-pie.

We have been staying in my in-laws home for several days now.. but my 2nd son, Mer still yearning to be back to his grandma instead.. he was so eager to go “home” yesterday evening that he forbit his elder brother, Cal to fall asleep, just in case if he fell asleep, we all won’t be going to my mom’s place. He keep on telling my father-in-law that he is going to sleep in grandma’s place instead of my in-laws’. Secretly.. I’m happy for that.. ‘cos he is just like me, prefer my mom’s place instead. But of course I keep my mouth shut to give any comments, just don’t want my in-laws to misundertand anything.